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The Art of the Solo Date: Discovering the Best Version of Yourself

It's never boring to do some activities by yourself, especially when you can't depend on your friends or companion.  You have to embrace this situation for now, and just enjoy it while you only have to think about yourself.

I have to call it a 'Date Yourself' activities, or simply happy things to do to keep you busy on understanding of who you are and what you want in life.  The following will help and guide you in finding your talent, or what you are good at.  It should help you make the best out of yourself, and learn who "your people" are, as you will naturally interact with different people, especially in group activities.  Live in your moment now, where you are free and remember that making mistakes is part of life's lesson.


Indoor Activities.  
The list are fun things to do at home but you can also try to do in other places.  

1.  Finish reading a novel.  Stop being hooked on Netflix and HBO.  See for yourself how far your imagination can take you as you read. You can also read a book on a cafe, in a library, or near the beach.

Happy Things to do while Single

2.  Learn to play your favorite song on a musical instrument.

3.  Schedule to watch and finish a tv series that is informative and mind-boggling.  Don't binge-watch; instead, make sure you limit yourself to one to two hours of watching a day.

4.  Cooking or baking your favorite food.  Doing this is not one time specially if you want to share it.  Practice makes a perfect recipe. 

5. Painting with numbers. You don't have to be an artist to paint.  Try the paint with numbers craft kit and paint like a pro.

6.  Start planting a garden on some planted pots.  It is so much fun to water and nurture plants, and see how they grow and bloom.  You can grow indoor and outdoor flowers and plants.



7.  Start writing a journal. Just write something, your thoughts, thanksgivings, and rants.  Later on, you will find yourself captivated on this endeavor and you will discover the benefits of journaling.

8. Complete a DIY project like repainting your bedroom wall,  or a small furniture, or decor the  interior of your rooms. 

9. Declutter wardrobe - trinkets and clothes. Fix any clothes that need sewing, and sell or donate the items you no longer need. 

10. Pamper yourself. Give yourself a home treatment of your feet and hand, use a used coffee grounds for body scrub, and give your teeth a thorough toothbrush, floss and mouthwash. You can also book a massage session for a home service or at a parlor.

11.  Take some time to ponder your spirituality.  Think about religion, faith, God and your purpose in life.  Schedule a visit for a religious activity, read the bible and write down prayers and gratitudes. 

All of these activities seems to give you a sense of accomplishment because of the time and attention  you spends on them. 

While they might feel like they take a long time - as you can find other ways to be entertained and finish things fast - taking it slow should help you improve your patience, stimulate your brain and gradually discover something new about yourself.

Outdoor Activities:
1.  Biking in a city with safe biking lane. 
2.  Test drive a new car model on all car brands.
3.  Watch a movie on a wide screen.
4.  Watch a concert.
5.  Go to a museum. 
6.  Have a morning walk in a park, or a conducive walkable area.
7. Have a road trip. Whether you drive or hop on a bus for a long journey, just go.

Single lady driving

8. Visit a nearby coast.
9. Visit your loved ones.
10. Surprise visit a close friend.

Stay active in body and mind while you are doing these 'Date Yourself' ideas at home or outdoor.  If you can't tag along a friend, don't be afraid to join in some group activities where you don't know anyone.  Try to initiate a conversation, introduce yourself, and mingle.
  • Outreach activity, do something for a cause.
  • Short training on courses for work or self development.
  • Workshop on crafting, painting, etc.
  • Go to a retreat that is more than a day.
  • Basic group lessons on biking, swimming, photography or learn a new language.
Happy Things to do while Single

Start:
A New hobby - Crochet. Biking.
Care for a pet - Dog. Cat.
Exercise routine -  Brisk walking. Jogging.
Morning routines - Journaling. Reading.
Be Grateful - Praying. Giving.

These ideas are not just for single women but are also good for women who are about to get married. These activities are must-do activities before you tie the knot. If you plan to embrace singleness, then you can start new hobbies or routines that will truly help you. 

I like you to live life with full of love and hope. You may check my other blogs to unlock self-love and live the fullest.  

Happy Things to do while Single



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